Author Archives: bganin

Having the courage to end a relationship

My biggest fear over the years in contemplating a breakup (which I knew would be for the best for many years but could not bring myself to do) was that I would feel so alone in the world–and how frightening … Continue reading

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Did we win? or lose?

Did you ever give thought to what was won and lost with women’s liberation? Of course we needed equal rights and pay in the work place, and to be treated like equals by men everywhere, and in a respectful manner. And not … Continue reading

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FEAR and ACTION

Something I learned a long time ago is that FEAR and TAKING ACTIONS can co-exist. Often, we want to take an action, and we are stopped by fear. This is natural. But if you can separate fear from action, you … Continue reading

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Notice! Interrupt! Replace!

I’ve realized recently that people, and especially the women I know, often look for validation from the men in their lives–especially that special man. This is probably true in many relationships, heterosexual or homosexual. We tend to look for compliments … Continue reading

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Are we having fun?

I always imagined that when I get to the pearly gates some day, that God will ask me, “So, did you have fun?” Can you imagine if we are here to enjoy ourselves, and all we do is find things … Continue reading

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Who ARE You?

Did you ever wonder who you are? I think we all wonder that at some point in our lives. Maybe every day! 🙂 There are so many ways to answer that question. Are you what you do? Teacher, mother, swimmer? … Continue reading

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Having A Life You Love, Part II: What Do You Really Want?

Now, what are those things you really want to do that you aren’t doing? There are obvious answers like “I wish I could go rafting more” or “I wish I had become a doctor” or “I wish I had time … Continue reading

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